Men's Work

Foundational essays on what men's work is, why it matters, and how men grow together.

The Difference Between Coaching and Therapy

Here’s another secret: I used to think therapy was bullshit too. And yes, you guessed it, that was before I gave therapy a real chance and eventually found the right therapists and forms of therapy for me.

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What Is Men’s Work? A Guide to Self-Mastery, Purpose & Integrity

For a long time, I thought freedom meant being able to do whatever I wanted. I wanted freedom to travel, freedom from bosses, freedom from commitment, freedom to pursue pleasure, and freedom to keep my options open. Like many men, I associated freedom with having as few restrictions placed on my...

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Self-Mastery

Articles on discipline, attention, emotional regulation, and becoming the man who leads himself.

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Essays on meaning, direction, career, and building a life rooted in something larger than yourself.

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Desexualization

Practical writing on moving from consumption to connection, integrity, and freedom from compulsion.

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